There’s a moment that doesn’t always look dramatic from the outside, when you hit mid-life as a millennial, and start to question everything about who and what you are. It’s not a breakdown, there might not be a big life event and sometimes no obvious reason why you feel the way that you do. But something is shifting and you want to figure out what, because feeling so lost feels unsettling.
Read MoreMost people think people-pleasing looks like saying “yes” too often or struggling to set boundaries, which can be symptoms of it. But in reality it can be far more subtle than that. It hides in your habits, your thoughts, your reactions, and most importantly, in the things you don’t even realise you’re doing in the name of being a ‘good’ person.
Read MoreThere’s a very specific kind of woman I see sitting across from me right now in therapy sessions. On paper, her life looks fine. Good, even. She’s got all the obvious ‘markers’ for a successful life; the job, the kids, the husband, the house, the car. All the things she has been taught she should strive for. She’s held it together for years. Built the life. Raised the kids. Kept the plates spinning. Showed up. Held everyone else emotionally. But somewhere in her late 30s or early 40s, something starts to crack.
Read More
