About Me:
I have been a perfectionist, people pleasing, good girl and I know how strong those habits are, but I also know how amazing life can feel when you finally let them go. Let me help you to do just that with my 1-1 coaching and therapy. Because you deserve for your life to be happier, healthier and emotionally more manageable.
About Me:
I'm Ria Oliver, a therapist and coach based in Hertfordshire, helping women rebuild their self-worth so they can stop living for everyone else and start creating a life that genuinely feels like theirs.
My work focuses on the patterns that sit underneath anxiety, burnout and overwhelm and the ‘good girl’ role that has kept you over functioning and stuck including…
People-pleasing
Perfectionism
Low self-esteem
Difficulty setting boundaries
Constant overthinking
Fear of disappointing others
Emotional burnout
Feeling disconnected from yourself
These aren't personality traits.
They're protective patterns that once helped you feel safe but are now keeping you small.
I’m not about quick fixes, surface-level self-care or giving you more coping strategies. I want to help you break the cycles for good. I am here to help you unlearn, re-write, and re-define the rules of womanhood so that you can create a life that you get to live, not just exist in.
My Disciplines:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT): To reframe negative thought patterns and behaviours.
Hypnotherapy: To tap into the subconscious and address deep-rooted, hidden issues.
Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP): To change limiting beliefs and the relationship with yourself.
Applied Psychology: To understand and apply psychological principles in everyday situations.
Positive Psychology: To help create a new lens on life.
Journal Therapy: To tap deep into what you’ve been avoiding the most and keep yourself accountable for change.
Goal Setting & Action Planning: To create practical steps for change and monitor your personal growth.
What Working With Me Looks Like:
With me in your corner, you’ll:
✨ Let go of perfectionism and the invisible mental load.
✨ Ditch good-girl conditioning and finally put yourself first.
✨ Stop people-pleasing and start trusting your own voice.
✨ Redefine success and womanhood in ways that feel lighter, freer, and truer to you.
Because happiness isn’t something you earn by ticking every box. It’s something you create by choosing yourself, over and over again.
On a more personal note…
When I’m not helping women save their sanity, you’ll find me wandering bookshops, out walking, listening to podcasts, chasing after my three small humans, or planning our next seaside adventure.
I believe women are unstoppable when they have the right support and finally get their sparkle back.
✨ If you’re ready to stop surviving and start redefining your role, your life and your mind, I’d love to walk alongside you.
I am the therapist and coach for you, if you're ready for a big life reset.