Unbecoming

The self-esteem course for women who have been bottom of the priority list for years, while they’ve been busy holding everyone else together, and now you want more for yourself.

This isn't about becoming more confident, more productive, more successful, or better at holding it all together. It's about unbecoming who you always felt you had to be.

On paper, things look fine.

You keep the plates spinning. You manage every emotion and need in your home, your work, the relationships that matter most — and at one point, that felt fulfilling enough.

But underneath it, you feel like you're failing. Not good enough. Invisible. Constantly behind everyone else.

You've got everything you ever wanted — the house, the husband, the kids — and somehow you're nowhere near the woman you thought you'd be by now.

And the irony is you're probably the woman everyone else looks at and thinks has it all together, so admitting you don't feels like failure.

You became so good at being everything to everyone, you stopped knowing who you were when people didn't need you…or who you are at all.

And now the kids are growing up. Maybe your relationship is over, or hanging by a thread. Suddenly there's all this space that used to be filled with them, that can now be filled with you — and you have no idea what to do with it, or who you are inside it.

If this is sounding familiar, then join the waitlist below, to be the first to get all the details when this course launches.

The ‘Unbecoming’ course opens October 19th and waitlist only members get…

• ⏰ 24-hour priority access to book from October 18th @ 9am

• 🤑 Waitlist only discounts when joining the course

• 🏆 Entered into a prize draw to WIN the course

The Course Options:

Unbecoming Foundations Members: £175 per month, for 3 months

• Instant access to the online course portal

• 44 audio sessions across 10 modules

• Over 6 hours of content

• Course Workbook

Unbecoming VIP Members: £250 per month, for 3 months

• 🔊 1-1 Telegram Support for 3-Months

• ⚡ Instant access to the online course portal

• 🎙️ 44 audio sessions across 10 modules

• ⏰ Over 6 hours of content

• ✍🏻 Course Workbook

Unbecoming is where you learn that you're allowed to have needs, boundaries, opinions, feelings and desires, without fearing that you’ll become a bad, selfish or difficult person. And without the fear of people deciding you're "too much."

It's where you learn to appreciate yourself, see your own worth, and stop outsourcing that feeling to everyone else's approval.

You don't need to become more. You need to stop believing that who you already are isn't enough.

The Shift:

Your key problem is that being yourself has historically felt unsafe, selfish, disappointing, or unacceptable. So before you can put yourself first, you need to understand:

• Why putting yourself first feels so uncomfortable

• Why you feel guilty when you rest

• Why you over-explain everything

• Why you panic when someone seems annoyed with you

• Why criticism derails you

• Why you can achieve something and still not feel enough
  

Unbecoming changes the lens through which you see your whole life:

• What will everyone think of me ➡️ What do I actually think?

• Saying yes to everything ➡️ Space to choose and the confidence to say no

• Needing reassurance ➡️ Trusting yourself

• Taking everything personally ➡️ Knowing what is yours to hold and what’s a reflection of other people

• Constant comparison ➡️ Feeling secure in your own life

• Earning worth through productivity ➡️ Knowing your worth because of who you are not what you can do

This is what it actually feels like on the other side:

🍂 Resting without earning it first.

🍂 Saying no without the three-paragraph explanation after.

🍂 Hearing someone go quiet and not spiralling into "what did I do?"

🍂 Being able to sit in your own opinion of yourself and have it be enough.

🍂 Holding boundaries that protect your peace and create more space for you.

This Course Is For You If:

• You feel like you're never quite good enough, no matter how much you do or achieve

• You feel guilty the second you put yourself first

• You reach for your to-do list before you ever let yourself slow down

• You feel overlooked or emotionally unseen — by others, and by yourself

• You constantly question yourself and reach for reassurance or validation

• Your worth is tangled up in productivity, performance, or keeping everyone else happy

• You've lost confidence in yourself somewhere along the way, and you can't quite place when

What You’ll Get Inside:

Unbecoming is a 3-month course built to rebuild your self-worth in the middle of real life, not on top of it. No pressure to be tied to your computer, no need to "show up" to live sessions every week, just easy access audio sessions you can listen to while in the middle of everyday life.

You’ll receive:

1. Online Programme Portal: Packed with 44 sessions, over 10 modules, workbook to guide your learning and over 6 hours of content. Work module by module, at your own pace, going through everything you need to build genuine self-esteem.

2. Optional Telegram Support (VIP): Self-study access plus 1:1 Telegram support Tuesday–Thursday each week, for a more personal, in-depth experience as you work through it all

The Modules Inside ‘Unbecoming: